Feelings behind being "Mrs"

He likes burger- and me, Idli Sambar
He likes sophistication- me, Simplicity
He likes long earrings- me, no earrings
He likes hill stations- me, beaches
He likes to spend-me save,
I like being silent- he ,hearing me,
I like reading- he going out,
I wish to go back home- he, go abroad

And still we survived 364 days of being together!

And that is it!

Happily married..

Every one seems to have a better idea of how others should live, and none about themselves!

Paulo Coelho

Red

My goal sheet gives red stretches
it overflows over months...

I wish if i could be a better person,
less egoistic, less selfish...
I wish, if I could impress, talk even if nothing to say...

But when self die, what will remain?
when you make others happy,when you can please,
when you get a good appraisal, a compliment-
"u r sexy today"- will you be happy?

when your soul is sacrificed, when you are not valued
for what you are and counted for what you are not...

U be U and get a red mark!

When life comes to its end
You, please transport
My lifeless body
Place it on the soil of Father Koubru

To reduce my dead body
To cinders amidst the flames
Chopping it with axe and spade
Fills my mind with revulsion

The outer cover is sure to dry out
Let it rot under the ground
Let it be of some use to future generations
Let it transform into ore in the mine

I'll spread the fragrance of peace
From Kanglei, my birthplace
In the ages to come
It will spread all over the world.

-lrom Sharmila

The bad thing that happened was I born as a woman; and the worst is - I tried to be a thinking woman...

If there is a single word by which I could describe my life- its "degraded"...

the Pink half!!

I have been meeting them; for the last one year...

all over the country, Orissa, Kannadiga, Tamil, Maratha,Young,Old,Fair,Dark,...but one thing in common- Dignity

All of them talked; not about the struggles, but the excitement of victory- shaping a life in a world which was not fair to them,about their daughters,dreams, about their partners,about friendship and trust, about courage...

The greatest gift god gave me was the boon to be born as a Woman...

a dedication n World Book Day 2010!

It started in municipal library, thodupuzha; an affair wit buks...nd then the vastness of university library, trivandrum, the inaccessibility of architectural library, CET, trivandrum...nd the warmth of CEPT library....

It was a hide out, an escape..a place where I can be myself...

dedicated to all the libraries in this world...

Feelings Behind Being "Mrs"

Though Life is miserable,
U are there to rescue...

Out of which what makes me more miserable?

Feelings Behind Being "Mrs"

Unwashed vessels, unfinished dinner
Words, choked, but never said
Dawn and Dusk, far from each other
Saree, Bindi and Sindur!

I wonder, where am I?
Who am I and Who I am supposed to be?
How to dress, how to smile, behave?
How to be presentable,an "object of desire"

A melting smile, a good night kiss
And, some times a nod that "I understood"
That is it!
Happily Married....